Starting Toilet Training in 5 Easy Steps.

Getting out of nappies is a big move for your little one and is great cause for celebration. While the process isn’t always easy there are some steps to take to make the transition easier.  

Firstly, look for the signs that your little one is ready. You might see signs as early as 18 months to slightly older than two years. If your child is taking more time, don’t push them too much. Wait for them to learn at their own pace. 

Here are some of the signs that may indicate that your child could be ready to be toilet trained:

• Your toddler can stay dry for two or more hours. This shows that their bladder muscles are getting stronger.
• They can tell you using signs or verbally that they need to wee or poo.
• They can sit comfortably in one position for a long time.
• They know how to pull their pants up or down.
• They dislike wearing a wet or soiled nappy.
• They can follow simple instructions.
• They can tell you with words or gestures when they do a poo or wee in their nappy
• They are regular with their timings for wee and poos
• They are showing an interest in others going to the toilet. They may even try to imitate others’ bathroom habits.

Developing this skill in a supportive and positive environment promotes positive self-esteem and is an important aspect of the development of your child’s self-help skills. Not only does it give them a sense of accomplishment and independence, you’ll also feel a sense of relief – no more dirty nappies!

5 steps to help the transition:

1. Set up a routine

Help your little one get used to the idea of going to the toilet by having them sit on a potty or toilet seat and accept it as a part of their routine- before or after meal times, bath time and before bedtime. Use positive language to show how proud you are of them for trying! At regular intervals, ask your child if they to go to the toilet. They might be busy playing so that by the time they realise, it’s too late. 

2. Role model and explain

There are ample storybooks such as Everyone Poos by Taro Gomi and The Potty Book for Girls and The Potty Book for Boys by Alyssa Satin Capucilli that can break down the process and ensure your encourage hygiene with handwashing. 

3. Choose underwear 

This gives your little one a sense of pride in reaching a milestone, giving them ownership and choice also gives them a sense of empowerment in the process. It is also a good idea to dress them in clothes that can easily be removed if they want to use the toilet themselves.

4. Handle set backs with poise 

This is not going to be a smooth process and accidents are unavoidable. These are temporary and negative reactions can make little ones feel defeated. They are still learning to hold their bladder and the importance of going to the toilet. This skill, like all skills takes time. If your child seems stressed or anxious give the training a break. They will have an easier and more successful time if they are feeling ready.

5. Praise success

High fives (after hand washing), and lots of positive praise give your little one a great sense of identity and builds their sense of self-worth, persistence and confidence. 

Ensure you let your child’s educator know so we can help support this transition and celebrate this fabulous milestone. For success it is important for your child to have similar experiences and routines at home and at their child care. Share your toilet training strategies with the educators ensures your little one is getting a consistent message between home and day care. Educators aim to encourage your child in all their efforts. 

Overall remember children learn at their own. Your child will eventually learn to use the toilet in their own time. By working in partnership with the educators the process of learning to use the toilet can be a positive and gratifying experience for all concerned.